Considering weight loss surgery.

Over the past year I have been researching weight loss surgery, primarily the lap band. I am now taking steps to go to seminars and meet with doctors. I know that surgery is a huge decision and is not something I would even consider if I were not desperate to get control of my weight. I know some of my friends have had this procedure done and I would like to reach out to them and ask their advice. My doctor has suggested the gastric sleeve over the lap band and I am not comfortable with this. It seems like a very extreme surgery. With the lap band a tool is placed around your stomach to help you feel satisfied with smaller amounts of food where as with the sleeve a portion of the stomach is actually removed. I have much research to do but as of right now the band is what I am considering. I know that some of you will object to surgery or feel it is unnecessary. Everyone is entitled to their opinion but I am putting this out there to reach out to my friends for advice, so please, be tactful in your comments. All rude and/or idiotic comments will be deleted.  

Whatever I decided to do I am kick starting my weight loss now by starting the couch to 5k program! I would love for my friends and family to join me! Some info on this program can be found here:
http://www.coolrunning.com/engine/2/2_3/181.shtml 

I have also made a new youtube channel to document my journey. 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mvvw-dnJdew

Please feel free to comment here or on my videos. 
As I said before I have not made any major decisions yet but this is something I am seriously considering. I would love the advice and support of my friends, family, and any one else that has experience with these procedures.
Thank you for reading and I hope to hear from you all soon!